Thinking is bad

I try to be sexy, i fail, horribly. I try to be funny, i fail. I try to be helpful, i cause more problems. I try to be happy, i fail, miserably. I am a wreck emotionally, mentally, physically. Some days i just wish it would all end. Sometimes i hope to go to bed and not wake up...maybe tonight.

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Graylight · 51-55, F

Try being you. Be exactly who you are and if there are areas you want to improve, get to work.

'Cause here's the secret - no matter what it looks like on the outside, every single person has doubts, fears, weak points, strengths, skills and something to give. No one feels comfortable here, no one feels at home. Embrace all of the uncertainty and you'll find a path begins to make itself clear.

I suspect you don't want things to end - you want things to change. Be the agent of that change but most importantly, be gentle with yourself. When you like who you are, others can't help I follow suit. Good luck.

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Graylight · 51-55, F

@istillhaveanameitsrick Do you suffer social anxiety? Did you have traumatic relationships as a child? There could be reasons behind why you feel the ways you do. We're the result of everything we've learned and experienced. Good talk therapy with a professional may help you make sense of stuff a bit more. No one has to solve this life in their own.

istillhaveanameitsrick · 56-60, M

@Graylight I absolutely have social anxiety. Tried therapy once and i didn't get much out of it except for a lot of frustration LOL

Graylight · 51-55, F

@istillhaveanameitsrick Hmm. I'd urge you to try again with akeen eye toward how well you hit it off with a counselor; a trusted relationship is half the battle.

If not, try things that test and challenge you. Overcoming obstacles and gaining confidence can be invaluable in overcoming anxiety. It's not easy for sure, and you may always avoid anxiety-inducing situations, but you can go a long way in reducing the levels.

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