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uncalled4 · 56-60, M
I think it's a misinterpretation. I'm not judging anyone, as I could stand to drop a few pounds myself. However, if someone looks like the people above, it becomes a health concern. "Shame" really doesn't enter into the equation. If it's a friend or relative, be supportive of their efforts. My now exwife struggled with her weight(it WAS a health problem) and I stood by her as she lost nearly 70 pounds. It was causing a circulatory issue and was nothing to mess with. For someone to look in the mirror and not see a problem...that's another issue entirely. But, I'd never "shame" anyone.