Help or not?

Should you help someone that has done you wrong and hurt your feelings badly, when they have been in an accident and need help? My heart says yes, my gut says no. Any thoughts would be appreciated.

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JustNik · 51-55, F

If your heart is saying yes because it hopes for anything other than the basic well-being of another human in distress, it might be better to let someone else do the helping. Sometimes an unpleasant personal history just creates stress that doesn’t help anyone.