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Allelse · 36-40, M
I had weddings and funerals and I'm not going to anymore.

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@Allelse Same honestly
Allelse · 36-40, M
@SW-User I hate social events, I think weddings and funerals are a waste of money and I don't grieve openly. Also my feeling of 'Well, nobody lives forever' with regard to a very old person dying, never seems to go down well but it's how I feel.

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@Allelse Sounds familiar.
Allelse · 36-40, M
@SW-User THEY'RE OLD!!! They lived a long fucking life and they often suffer at the end, MY DAUGHTER WAS ONLY 3 FUCKING YEARS OLD!!! And when something like that happens you find yourself being alright when an older person passes, because at least they lived.

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@Allelse Respect is given in the living world, after that.. it may be too late
Allelse · 36-40, M
@SW-User The dead don't worry, it's the living that are left to live with their parting.

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@Allelse True