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my gfs been pressuring me to move in

I’m not sure if I’m ready. We’ve been dating for almost 2 years so I guess its about that time. I told her that I wasn’t ready but I’m not sure, am I being unreasonable?
I mean obviously you need to do things on your own time but also you don't want to lead her on
GhostPoncho · 46-50, M
[@232861,MrBlueSky] He’s being him, and she’s trying to see him miserable.
EuphoricTurtle · 36-40, M
Dude, if you're not sure after 2 years then it's time to reassess that relationship. It's one thing to be afraid of how such a change can affect your life, it's another to not be willing to move forward.
beefandbroccoli · 26-30, M
Don't do it, it's a trap. Tell her you're not ready and go sleep with her best friend or something and then say it was an accident
Rolexeo · 26-30, M
Do it, don't listen to Ted, he's never had a gf
Rolexeo · 26-30, M
[@903658,BelovedTed] You're gonna make this very boring aren't you?
GhostPoncho · 46-50, M
[@1201398,Rolexeo] I find incels like you boring.
Rolexeo · 26-30, M
[@903658,BelovedTed] Seems like you can't leave me alone, incel
GhostPoncho · 46-50, M
Don’t do it. Never be pressured into major life decisions.
sircartier · 18-21, F
suddenly i’m happy to have arab parents who won’t let me leave until i’m married💅🏽

on a serious note, it’s been two year bro. if you feel like you’re not ready, you gotta think more about this relationship overall. 2 years is a long enough time. i’m not saying you gotta move in with her, but y’all don’t seem like you’re on the same page and maybe there’s a reason for that
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
When will you be ready? It’s been 2 years.
MarkPaul · 22-25, M
You are definitely not ready. As for being unreasonable, well, I think you already know the answer to that.
Nayla · 51-55, F
Why don’t you try living together first?
TurtlePink · F
Do it when you feel ready
JoeyFoxx · 51-55, M
Fish or cut bait

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