So earlier I posted about my boyfriend and his ex and now I’m really confused

I need help! I don’t know how to react to this I’m so in love. Don’t want to come off as insecure but she messaged him on Facebook and said “you in a relationship but you love me wow. I’m boiling hot right now trying to hold my composure like I’m not mad about it. Is she picking with me or is it a possibility he’s talking to her.

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riseofthemachine · 41-45, M

Facebook is a dangerous site . If If was you I'd loose contact with his ex and then you wont know all that information and your head wont be wrecked and if he loves you trust in it and if he dont in time you'd know .
And being honest if he leaves it's not the end of the world . You be in pain for a couple of months .
You'll find someone else and that will make you stronger ,if not then you'd become a better person when you go through pain on your own .
Pain was the valuable lesson I got with life . It pushes you towards to like yourself more and you wont be half as insecure that in a relationship.
Relationships add insecurities that's my experience, especially if you think the relationship goes pair shaped . Depending on the person and then if your trying to make a person stay . That's were the pain comes in

MrsCurious · 26-30, F

Turns out he was talking to her screenshots don’t lie. She told me everything @riseofthemachine