Alpha Mother's Make Beta Sons Then Blame Men For Not Being Leaders

@SW-User It's a vicious cycle that was devised and orchestrated by second-wave feminists. They declared that male toxicity was to blame for every war and act of violence. They committed to a 50 year plan to secure equality for women "by any means necessary."

@LoveTriumphsOverHate I was raised by a single, dominant, Super Alpha mother. I grew up to feel inferior to women. I didn't realize at the time, but I was emasculated especially in my teens.

@LoveTriumphsOverHate well for me the hardcore feminist movement was a carefully crafted psyop to destroy the teaditional concept of family, where man is the head of the household etc
Im all for equal rights for everyone but it was just a reason to take it further. My opinion

@SW-User I totally agree.

@CuriousCuckold you know, controlling mothers also put down their daughters...I grew up like that.

@SW-User Do you think that it is best that a man be the head of the family? I wished for a father figure to rescue me from my mom and other women who I felt were hostile to me because I was a boy.

@SW-User I could imagine. I am just saying that in my own case I felt smothered and dominated because I was a boy, or because I had a penis. I felt my mom was angry about that or something like that.

@LoveTriumphsOverHate unfortunately this term "alpha" mother is just a narcissist with twisted understanding of reality that needs a lot of counseling before she damages her kids. Now that I look back at my then "alpha" mother, I see that she was just a control freak having no idea what child rearing was about etc . There was only an alpha idiot, unfortunately .Sigh. To me "alpha" applies mostly to males cause male nature and role are different from females. But these days everything is backwards and upsidedown, right is wrong and wrong is portrayed as right etc It ridiculous

@CuriousCuckold some mothers are angry at the father and take it on his son. It might have not been even you. But on subconscious level since you were kind of a " piece " of him . Who knows. Alpha means an over achiever. Like being successful in getting two degrees while having a job at the same time enjoying your hobbies. Taking out shït on a defenseless little kid...is just having issues and anger management problems etc

@SW-User So, it seems your mother was also a victim. One abuser begets another until one victim becomes a suitable role model. I'm sure you had someone in your life who influenced you and helped you get through the pain, not to continue in victimhood but take control of the situation and become a role model.

@LoveTriumphsOverHate well...I had no rolemodels and lived a life of phobias actually and in fear cause my father was a Hitler literally. I was afraid to breath or look at him the wrong way to be yelled at or pushed or whatever 101 times per day. I could not control my phobias and feara and gave up on trying. It seemed impossible, since it becomes such an ingrown part of you that you don't notice it, think it is normal and there is nothing wrong with the abuse. You see it as normal. But luckily, somehow, I've met a person and he , doing a lot of hard work ( fixing a person is bloody hard) and "unwinding" the wiring lol inside my brain or personality or consciousness, freed me. Not sure but only after him I felt free and able to stand up for myself. Thank God for him 🤧🤧🤧

@SW-User You are lucky. Many people prefer to exploit a person who was abused during their upbringing rather than trying to help or heal that person. especially if your self esteem has been beaten down as a child.

@CuriousCuckold Yeah, I was thinking the same thing. Very sad, but true.

@CuriousCuckold yes, I have been exploited, taken advantage of financially, people will-- if you let them
. I thought they had all rights and I had none. And they had the right to treat me like shït and tell me what to do. This person came into my life only couple of years ago, recently. I feel lucky and that he is a miracle that happend to me 🤧🤧🤧

@SW-User @LoveTriumphsOverHate @CuriousCuckold This is exactly what happened to me. My mother beat me almost daily because she hated my father for abandoning us. I mean it was visceral. Sometimes I bled sometimes just bruises. Back then you had no one as no teacher, neighbor or community person would ever get involved much less report it. Being a scrawny/bony boy, getting the shit knocked outta me in public like other boys by a giant female gorilla who hates men eventually seemed normal. And yeah you get used to it, all the while your self-esteem, dignity, loyalty, and self-respect are basically lost. Not to mention a lifetime of trust in females nearly lost forever. This is what feminism does to families. Like poison it attacks the bonds that keep us together, not so much in the name of equality as in the acquisition of Power.

One day I figured out it was not normal. It was not ok. Things slowly got better after then. But it took until after both parents died for me to stop feeling guilt and shame for just being a clumsy kid who had to pay hell for it and then some.

It's good to hear other people open up like each of you have and the fact that you've done so confirms I'm not the only one. Out of control, destructive feminism destroyed my family as its stated goals directed it to. But rather than sit and blame the world, taking action has made my life better in many ways and I urge you to seek peace within yourself the best way you can.

Peace.

@PatKirby I was also hit in public in front of strangers that was so embarrassing OMG. Out of nowhere. Parents are actually the key figures that destroy children it takes decades to piece yourself back together. I find feminist movement completely toxic to everything the unit of family stands for. Its un natural just like every man made idea is destructive. Most families that fell apart that I have seen was when the wife tried to dominate the husband. It never works and is bound for destruction. Some men will put up with it but only in the beginning, when they are finally fed up, they leave and the mother takes her hate out oh kids. That's at least what i have seen around me. Maybe its different for everyone. My mother also hated me cause I looked like my fathers side of the family and she despised all of them after the divorce. Well, I learned from their mistakes and how not to be like my mother and father

@PatKirby hugs

@SW-User Sistergirl, this is so right on the mark and an important, lucid point you make here. I learned early, early that the first person to love you is the same person to betray you. It's a long road but eventually you see welcome light at the end of the tunnel. Unfortunately some never do and I feel for them.

However I do emphasize that working through it brings many good things. In the end, the past must remain behind you as life moves on. Making a deliberate, conscious choice to improve yourself of your own free will is key. Being hit in public is no doubt a humiliating and incredibly embarrassing thing that does nothing more than rob the soul away from a child. Troublesome and trying are the decades spent finding it back. I found mine after those lost decades still waiting for me. I sense you'll find yours soon, if not already.

Children of man-hating feminists are like slow-motion funerals for the souls of abused kids. Have you heard of Pat Benatar's song "Hell is for Children"? It was written to describe what abused kids go through. Give a listen to it, there is so much truth in her words.


I agree with you on what you have expressed about the feminist movement and its consequences. I describe its existence this way: A strong, well connected, and trust-bound family stands firmly on two legs, while the destructive feminist movement stands on one leg awaiting the fall.

I also say in jest, please do not capitalize the word 'feminism' as you're only supposed to capitalize proper nouns, and feminism isn't a proper anything. Hahaha!

“the first person to love you is the same person to betray you. “@PatKirby So sad. The song makes me want to say “ Earth....is a hell for children” It’s just too much of that...all over everywhere. .....

@SW-User Ya, things are getting noticeable worse. The best we can do is take care of ourselves, family and friends. We have little control over those hellish things going on nowadays.