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Are you the kind of person who's always there for everyone else, but when you need something, everyone is too busy or preoccupied?

Or is that just me?
LadyJF
That's me in a nutshell!..I'm always the one that my family and friends turn to and unload their problems on... but whenever i need them there's an issue..busy schedule..change of subject..my partner thinks it's because thry can't handle me being broken because I'm the strong one..personally i just think they are a bunch of self centred f**kers 馃檮馃ぃ
@LadyJ I hear ya
Tomorrow56-60, F
@LadyJ That's it exactly. Always some excuse. I think they are self centered fuc*ers too.
LadyJF
@Tomorrow some people are so obsessed with their own problems that they never consider what others may be going through...i made a deal with myself that in 2021 i would mirror other peoples behaviour towards me,if someone treats me with care concern and respect they will with no doubt recieve it back,if someone never asks how I'm doing,i wont be asking them...one sided concern can chip away at peoples self esteem and its a game I'm not prepared to play anymore and i feel better for it already
JoePourMan61-69, M
It happens but it is of my my own chosing so I don't mind
Tobasco31-35, F
That's also me
Tomorrow56-60, F
I think that is a lot of us.
@ImplodingVoices it makes sense that this place would attract similar people, but then a quick check of the posts and I think we are VERY dissimilar as well 馃槅
@Ghostinthemachine lols.. I think that people, on some level, want to connect and be understood. We want interactions that make us feel valued.
@ImplodingVoices absolutely
I am. I鈥檝e learned painfully not to expect anything from people anymore.
Tomorrow56-60, F
@NoGamesTolerated Do away with expectations and you'll never be disappointed.
@Tomorrow As hard as I try even when human decency is at stake, I have to sit it down. I think sometimes it鈥檚 being human.
Tomorrow56-60, F
Human nature. @NoGamesTolerated
SW-User
I used to think that way.

I don't know how much of it was true in the end. I think people were willing to help and be there... I just never asked.
Tomorrow56-60, F
@SW-User Some are. Some aren't.
SW-User
It鈥檚 brutal how lonely it gets at times sure ... but life goes on right ? 馃枻馃巰
Tomorrow56-60, F
@SW-User You hit the nail on the head. Absolutely brutal.
SW-User
I hear you ... don鈥檛 lose heart 馃尮 @Tomorrow
Tomorrow56-60, F
@SW-User Thank you. Maybe things will be brighter after a good night's sleep. Right?
Beatbox3431-35, M
Yes. Usually when I need some help or anything in general. Nobody's around.

This is why I keep it to myself now.
SW-User
Sometimes..but when I feel down I usually feel freakish and isolated so it鈥檚 mostly that.
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Donotfolowme51-55, F
Nope!! I am very moody
Tomorrow56-60, F
@Donotfolowme Happens to the best of us.

 
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