Ladies if you have used men in the past do you feel guilty later on?

Yep. I wasn't aware of it myself for a long time. I didn't understand my own feelings and I lost a great friendship over it. My best friend told me... if I can't go back into friendship, possibly the friendship was only in my mind to begin with. Sometimes good intentions make trouble! XD It taught me a lesson to be more introspective and more outspoken. Working on clear communication is worth it.

yes and no 😬

That bad in bed you are?

Nope..never done that!

I forgive you my child. Now please disrobe as penance.

I’ve def been used but I’ve also done some using. It’s part of growing up

I've not done that.. I was always very aware that it wouldn't be nice.. I've done a lot of things others wouldn't have.. but one of the things I was always proud of was that I always treated people well, I treated them like I would have wanted to be treated.
I am not judging you in any way here tho.. we all have to act in ways that work for us.. and sometimes it can be a kick to flirt.

You asked one thing then describe another. How is it "using" men just to disappoint them? Unless you are "using them" to improve your own low self esteem it makes no sense. This would be the only plausible explanation I can imagine for having "fun" disappointing anyone?

Yes I have used men for sex and no I never feel guilty.Not even when they were married and the wife walked in on us going at it in their marital bed.

I have but not on purpose, usually it takes sometime for guilt to come around but sooner or later it comes

That doesn't sound like my kind of fun. You haven't a heart if you don't have regrets.

That's good though! Have your conscience lead the way here :)

ah yes.. used and/or ghosted

Now you can know how it feels like

:( not cool

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Its very noticible when women does that, so that means youve only been able to lead idiots on... 🤷‍♀️