I always want to do the best in everything, how to dampen that?

That's too much pressure, anyone has the same experience? how do you deal with it?

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Yulianna · 26-30, F

i want to do and be the best i can in every aspect of my life. success and achievement are my ambitions. i do not want to change this in any way.

KiwiBird · 36-40, F

@Yulianna An admirable quality. To be the best we can be...nothing wrong with that.

JustChill · 26-30, F

@Yulianna That's awesome. But once you get to know the world better you wouldn't be realistic if you wanna be best in everything. Sometimes you simply can't..

Yulianna · 26-30, F

@JustChill i wrote, i want to be the best i can, not that i want to be best in everything.

i believe i know the world pretty well, and i have a realistic view of it, without illusions or fantasies.

but thank you for your advice.