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How do you handle silence treatment?

I can't!!!The more you stay cold and quiet ,
the more I'll talk
Digging deeper..
deeper ...
deeper ....
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KaysHealingPath · 36-40, F
I leave.
I seriously can’t handle that anymore.

If he pulls the silence treatment on me I pull the credit card from the drawer and go shopping 🛍☺️
Niloo · 51-55, F
@KaysHealingPath
Lol!
Good for you 🤗
SweetMae · 70-79, F
@KaysHealingPath Good for you! 😂
SW-User
Eh. If get the silent treatment, I walk away. I'm too old and tired for that particular game.
@SW-User Same.
Niloo · 51-55, F
@SW-User
Sounds good
I can try that I guess 😁
Lol... calm down Niloo Jaan...

Im just thinking...🤗🤗❤
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@Niloo

🤗🤗😘😘😘🌹
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@Niloo How do you manage to hit the nudity button all the time? 🤔
SweetMae · 70-79, F
That is passive aggresive behavior. I refuse to be a victim anymore. I go for a walk, read a book or call a friend.
Niloo · 51-55, F
@SweetMae
Thank you
SweetMae · 70-79, F
@Niloo I hope things improve for you soon.
BlueVeins · 22-25
I don't know the first thing about relationships, but I think one lover 'punishing' the other in such a petty, miserable way is an excellent sign that the relationship has failed.
Niloo · 51-55, F
@BlueVeins
Not necssiarly
People learn over time how to handle eachother 🙂
BlueVeins · 22-25
@Niloo Nobody should learn to handle someone else deliberately hurting them. If the treater gives up the practice, that's obviously a road to redemption though.
Notanymore · 41-45, M
They never talk much anyway
Niloo · 51-55, F
@Notanymore
Awwww💕
Magenta · F
Not well at all. One of the most annoying things to me.
Niloo · 51-55, F
@Magenta
I can relate 🤗
TexChik · F
We don’t do that much anymore . Everything is a competition with me in that regard and I will give back in spades . I would much rather he jump in the middle of me and tell me what I’ve done and express his displeasure so I can process it . I almost always apologize . I do the same for him.
Niloo · 51-55, F
@TexChik
And it works for you both
That's great 🤗
SW-User
I don't play those juvenile games. I walk
Niloo · 51-55, F
@SW-User
Smart move sir 👍️
SW-User
@Niloo Thank ya lady
Rutterman · 46-50, M
I'll give the other person the silent treatment until they stop with theirs.
Niloo · 51-55, F
@Rutterman
Takes quite a bit if patience ...
Rutterman · 46-50, M
@Niloo I am a patient man. 😄
Niloo · 51-55, F
@Rutterman
🤗 Good
SW-User
I don't handle it well
Niloo · 51-55, F
@SW-User
Me neither 😅
HeteroDox · 41-45, F
a drink with my girls... "you want to clam up? kindly be that way when i get back too."
Niloo · 51-55, F
@HeteroDox
Awesome !
Cheers to you 🥃
raysam363 · 31-35, F
You move on and go about your day, and don't give in when the person gets upset.
Niloo · 51-55, F
@raysam363
Sounds good
Hopefully they will be in better mood next time you see them ..
raysam363 · 31-35, F
@Niloo Oh it's not a factor anymore. And I won't let it be in the future either.
Niloo · 51-55, F
@raysam363 👍️
Noble · 56-60, M
I used to want to talk it out, but anymore, I simply ignore the situation.
Niloo · 51-55, F
@Noble
I understand 🤗
SW-User
Apparently really well
SW-User
@Niloo oh, you don’t want me teaching you
Niloo · 51-55, F
@SW-User 😳
SW-User
@Niloo 🙃
SW-User
I like to talk about problems, so i don't handle it well at all..
Niloo · 51-55, F
@SW-User
I understand !
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Niloo · 51-55, F
@sspec
Good🤗
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SW-User
It's fine, I just keep saying what I need to say, ignore all they want.
Niloo · 51-55, F
@SW-User
Till they feel like they are falling behind and start talking ?
Smart 😎
By saying "Goodbye" and finding someone less abusive towards me.
Niloo · 51-55, F
@HootyTheNightOwl
Good for you💪
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
I think I'd enjoy it!
Niloo · 51-55, F
@GJOFJ3
😄
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
I ignore the person. If it takes too long I cast quizzical looks at them.
Niloo · 51-55, F
@CrazyMusicLover
Does it work?
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
@Niloo Not really but I can't do any better. 😀
Niloo · 51-55, F
@CrazyMusicLover
Awwwe🤗
It’s the worst the only thing you can do is return the favor ... at all body don’t break. The silence
Niloo · 51-55, F
@NaughtyPickle
Got it 😅
SW-User
Drown it out with another silence, that comes from within ....:)
Niloo · 51-55, F
@SW-User
Working on it 😁
SW-User
@Niloo Me too 🤗
Niloo · 51-55, F
@SW-User
🤗
Degbeme · 70-79, M
It`s not my fault you ignore me. 😒 🤭
Niloo · 51-55, F
@Degbeme
I would never!😘
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@Niloo 🤗 :*
Mugin16 · 46-50, M
Sometimes men need to be left alone. They will come to you when/if they want to talk.
Keepitsimple · 56-60, F
Depends on my mood. Either be grateful or be a nudge for the hell of it.
Niloo · 51-55, F
@Keepitsimple
I know a couple of people who a totally enjoy the silence, like a nice break 😉
Keepitsimple · 56-60, F
I don’t mind it really, it’s hard to take somebody serious when they act immature 🤷🏻‍♀️@Niloo
Niloo · 51-55, F
@Keepitsimple
I agree
JustNik · 51-55, F
Ah I’ve been around that all my life. A favorite of both my mom and husband. I find it irritating and pointless and just go about my business til they get their head out their ass. 🙄🤷‍♀️
Niloo · 51-55, F
@JustNik
Haha!
I can tell it really bothers you !
Good move my friend 🤗
JustNik · 51-55, F
@Niloo 🤗
Noble · 56-60, M
Bite your lip
Niloo · 51-55, F
@Noble
It might work
More biting , less talking !
Peaches · F
My ex used to do that to me all the time. I'm so glad I finally left his mean rotten ass!👎🏼
SW-User
@Peaches Sorry you had to go through that too. It sucks i know :(

 
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