I’m asking for a friend.... “I’m single” Would it be wrong to separate from your partner so they can get themselves together.

Or would this be considered tough love putting a man out until he gets on his feet. Or letting him stay with you and not contribute. Or build together but don’t see any changes simply because he’s not willing to change. Or do you think a man whose not willing to change will ever change if it’s space in the relationship...?

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xixgun · M

I once read: "People only react/act/move, when they are uncomfortable. Be it physically or emotionally. If they are comfortable wallowing in their puddle of misery, they'll stay right there.
But if you throw down a bunch of towels, dry up that puddle, and kick them squarely in the ass - they won't be comfortable, and they will "move". "

Sounds like you've thrown down the towels. Time to put on your boots.