Do you throw junk away that your significant other is dry holding on to?
Or do you just ask politely lol
26-30, F
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PirateMonkeyCabinet · 36-40, M
No. In some cases I might suggest it, ask kindly, or try to nudge them in the direction, but I'd never throw their stuff away without permission.
For me that would be breaching their trust. I know I would not appreciate that happening to me.
If we're talking full-on hoarding here - the "entire room is filled from floor to ceiling with the tiniest walkway" kinda hoarding - I would likely be very clear about that I would not accept living like that. In the end, it's their call whether they choose their hoarded goods or me, but I would not be willing to live in that kinda chaos.
For me that would be breaching their trust. I know I would not appreciate that happening to me.
If we're talking full-on hoarding here - the "entire room is filled from floor to ceiling with the tiniest walkway" kinda hoarding - I would likely be very clear about that I would not accept living like that. In the end, it's their call whether they choose their hoarded goods or me, but I would not be willing to live in that kinda chaos.