Thoughts on these sms messages? PS I didn't respond coz I knew he'd barge into the room and...

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Thoughts on these sms messages?

PS I didn't respond coz I knew he'd barge into the room and scream and shout in person

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ShutUpNancy · 31-35, M

What the hell is this?

MarkPaul · 26-30, M

This is impossible to follow... and the fact that you are revealing personal texts is horribly revealing as to your sincerity in whatever relationship you think you have. This is unforgivable.

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MarkPaul · 26-30, M

@SW-User What is your problem, dude?

SW-User

@MarkPaul No hay problema señorita

MarkPaul · 26-30, M

@SW-User Bien, niñita.

DomMan67 · 56-60, M

So this guy doesn't work and he tries to make you feel guilty for working when you need to. He is essentially saying you are choosing your career over him while he does nothing to provide for you and you are the only person bringing in any money. Does he think it would be better if you started to refuse to work on scheduled days so you can be unemployed to? He appears to have the maturity of a child which is putting it nicely. This guy is an anchor around your neck and he will drag you under water with him if you let him. I hope you break free before he does.

BalmyNites · F

Can’t form an opinion without your responses in between

MzAnonymouz · 36-40, F

@BalmyNites No response. That's the whole convo

BalmyNites · F

@MzAnonymouz So from 6.20pm up till 4.49am he was sending messages & you were not replying? You might ask yourself if you would have got frustrated, had the boot been on the other foot & also how you would feel, if your (boyfriend?) then came on here & pasted all your private messages. Sorry, but in my opinion there’s more to this than meets the eye

MzAnonymouz · 36-40, F

@BalmyNites I would Love it if he gets on website like this and maybe get some help since I already offered that I'll pay for counselling which he refused.

People on here talk about all sorts of things including eating asses and shit and some gets outrage because I took a copy of "confidential message?"

SW-User

It’s up to you and the person involved to figure out. Personal messages are not for public display.

SW-User

Red flags everywhere. Id dump this person immediately.

xixgun · M

I sense an astounding and pointless argument ensuing

MzAnonymouz · 36-40, F

@xixgun Everyday

Valerian · 100+, M

@MzAnonymouz https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/i-hate-you-dont-leave-me/201208/the-adult-borderline-home

Beetlejuice68 · 51-55, M

The boy has zero depth of character, what whiney man-child, he is toilet trained at least isn’t he?

Steve42 · 56-60, M

One sided conversations are usually no good for anyone.

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Valerian · 100+, M

@MzAnonymouz There are major issues that you may not want to tag along with anymore!

Does he get upset, in person, if you interupt his long diatribes?

MzAnonymouz · 36-40, F

@Valerian Yes and he gets louder

Valerian · 100+, M

@MzAnonymouz Okay ...

I know a female version of this person, Complicated Circular Complaining is her thing 🤷‍♂️
Nothing is ever exactly as planned, everyone disappoints, plans disappoint! 🤦‍♂️

If you interrupt, she [u]flips[/u] because [b]you're[/b] making her "[u]forget[/u]" what she has just said 3 times 3 different ways!

So 20 Minutes of, "listening", being lectured to later... the furious curious struggle is over and as long as you DO NOT bring up [u]THAT Topic[/u] you can talk!

It's called: [i]Adult Borderline Personality Disorder[/i] and it manifests variously.

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https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/i-hate-you-dont-leave-me/201208/the-adult-borderline-home

SW-User

Girl I genuinely fear for your safety. That's clearly an abusive, unstable individual. You're better out really. Please seek help and take care of yourself.