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Thoughts on these sms messages?



PS I didn't respond coz I knew he'd barge into the room and scream and shout in person
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Steve42 · 56-60, M
One sided conversations are usually no good for anyone.
MzAnonymouz · 36-40, F
@Steve42 That was the whole convo he had with himself
Valerian · 100+, M
@MzAnonymouz There are major issues that you may not want to tag along with anymore!

Does he get upset, in person, if you interupt his long diatribes?
MzAnonymouz · 36-40, F
@Valerian Yes and he gets louder
Valerian · 100+, M
@MzAnonymouz Okay ...

I know a female version of this person, Complicated Circular Complaining is her thing 🤷‍♂️
Nothing is ever exactly as planned, everyone disappoints, plans disappoint! 🤦‍♂️

If you interrupt, she flips because you're making her "forget" what she has just said 3 times 3 different ways!

So 20 Minutes of, "listening", being lectured to later... the furious curious struggle is over and as long as you DO NOT bring up THAT Topic you can talk!

It's called: Adult Borderline Personality Disorder and it manifests variously.

Read:

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/i-hate-you-dont-leave-me/201208/the-adult-borderline-home