Moms, how do you not get lost in being a mom and loose yourself?

New mom #2 on the way. While I love my children and my family, I almost feel like I have no idea who I am anymore

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BananaBrown · 41-45, F

Set aside time every day to be alone. Some days it might only be five or ten minutes, but find those minutes somewhere, and make it a priority. Being a good mother and taking care of your family requires that you take care of yourself too.

Soramarie · 26-30, F

@BananaBrown I’ve tried that but I don’t even know what to do anymore

BananaBrown · 41-45, F

You don’t know what to do when you’re alone? Anything! Call a friend or go for a walk. If you have more than just a few minutes, try to pick up an old hobby or treat yourself to a movie. Sometimes, simply not being “mom” for a little while helps to clear the mind:) @Soramarie]

Soramarie · 26-30, F

@BananaBrown the walk/ bike ride would be amazing