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Does nobody else find it creepy and weird that some women in the US call their partners Daddy?

I see it in chat shows and films. Is it really that common? And if so, wtf?
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LucyFuhr · 56-60, F
Is it any weirder than calling your significant other "baby"? Neither are really appropriate when you consider their true meaning but they're just silly terms of endearment.
LondonCowboy · 51-55, M
Very True !! 🌹@LucyFuhr
Ewww....just ewwww
SW-User
Just wondering. Seems most of the women here aren’t Into it @Vivaci
@SW-User Yeah, coz it reminds them of their Dad.
SW-User
Ah you’re one of those huh?doesnt surprise me there’s a lot of close minded people here @Vivaci
Nanori · F
it's only a sexual preferences, not a big deal
Kwek00 · 41-45, M
I know british people that do it too.
How do I know? People talk when drunk... sometimes, they talk to much. 😔
@Kwek00 Oh okay. I’ve never notice that but who knows.
Kwek00 · 41-45, M
@SirenCalledLuce 😖 Some stuff can't be unheard
@Kwek00 sadly true
Pfuzylogic · M
That has been going on for 25 years.
I remember it started with Robin Williams.
Here is the classic performance from the mid 90s.
[media=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tOUKX89R_ZE]
Warning this is adult rated.
Pfuzylogic · M
@SirenCalledLuce 😉 It was a major hit with the high school students!
Viper · M
@Pfuzylogic probably even longer than that, that might of when it first hit main stream.
Pfuzylogic · M
@Viper It was at the very start of Yahoo and Google..
R5000 · 41-45, M
i find it creepy when grown women call their real fathers daddy
SW-User
Not creepy at all. As someone who enjoys training women into submission it’s a gift and a real treat to be called daddy.
@Miram Which fuckhead? Acidking?
Miram · 31-35, F
@SirenCalledLuce

Yes. He defended someone who admitted to raping women.

https://similarworlds.com/30-Miscellaneous/3002425-I-wonder-if-the-admins-ever-feel-ashamed-of?com_id=35125767&ncom_id=35158085
Ferrari21 · 36-40, M
😂😂😂 “Mr. Pornhub” @SirenCalledLuce
TerriG · 26-30, F
I think it's hot
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TerriG · 26-30, F
@LondonCowboy I'm a good Daddys girl
revenant · F
very strange indeed
It's a submissive thing I think
rfhh1959 · 61-69, M
It seems to be a trope used for Southern women and I have lived in the South since college in the late 70's and know of only one woman who does that and I its strange to me
SW-User
You mean it's not just a private role play thing, but they do it casually in front of others?
It’s not just the USA. Fetish groups are international.

The whole daddy thing is also in your country as well.
Sueisright · 31-35, F
Their American so what do you expect,since they can’t speak English
Sueisright · 31-35, F
Lol like the mistake @2cool4school
2cool4school · 46-50, F
] Their American so what do you expect,since they can’t speak English
@Sueisright
2cool4school · 46-50, F
@Sueisright your mistake ?? You like it ??
It seems to be repeated enough to remark upon, yes, but whether or not this is an attempt to appeal to a certain porn-watching demographic or not, I don't know.

It would be interesting if this "does more" for the speaker (F) or the spoken to/of (M)...

It might also simply play into the younger woman/older guy dynamic.
Yeah, it's pretty common. I don't know why. I wouldn't call my partner Mommy.
Gamalon · 31-35, M
I was thinking this lately. Its... unsettling. Call the guy anything else.
Myself11 · 61-69, M
Yes it is common but I say to each there own
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Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M
probably because they're fathers
@Ryannnnnn just no 😂
comes from more than one source.
fetish, the one you might be assuming is only a part of it.. that
"I want My Father " kind of psych.

in American isolated Black culture, it has been an ordinary term of endearment. not necessarily any of that daddy daughter stuff.

In American Latin culture, "Papi" is similar.

I think the surge in fetish interest is across the board. SOooo many think they need to "Try all the things" when much of the rigen of a fet life, is something that makes the persons,, Non-standartd some moment that changd them.

not everyone needs to DO that
ExtremeNext · 36-40
Everything about the US is weird
2cool4school · 46-50, F
To me it’s a dynamic I do not want with my partner.
Not hot!! Partner=/=anything about family members.
Even first names will make me write someone off as a potential.
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
I have not had a girl call me that nor want that.
I'm actually Greek
2cool4school · 46-50, F
@PepsiColaP And ...?
Subsumedpat · 36-40, M
A lot of submissive use that to refer to their dom.
not creepy at all
LondonCowboy · 51-55, M
@butterflymind1 😈😻😘
Wedgy · 31-35, F
@LondonCowboy It is extremely disgusting
Perry4444 · 56-60, M
Yeah. I had a woman on here who wanted to call me daddy as a role play. I was like....see ya. Eeww. Too weird.
Wedgy · 31-35, F
Same, it just so gross
Imagine them in bed ''who's your daddy?' Oh wait, dont! 🤦
scooogy · 31-35, MVIP
I've been shown cookie soda from the US, there's hardly anything that could shock me yet.
hippyjoe1955 · 70-79, M
In the heat of passionate embrace I have been called 'daddy' by more than one woman. It didn't hurt my feelings.
Fukfacewillie · 56-60, M
It started as a Latina thing (aye Papi) then worked its way to white girls wanting to sound cool.
SatanBurger · 36-40, F
@Fukfacewillie Did daddy Dom/little in the BDSM world derive from Latino relationships? I was just curious.
Fukfacewillie · 56-60, M
Not sure, but a good question! Maybe from the same impulse. @SatanBurger
ninjavu · 56-60, M
It's not my thing, but I know people who do. It's their thing; I have no issue with it, but I do get annoyed when younger women presume they can call me "Daddy".
LondonCowboy · 51-55, M
I don’t think they do it in an incestuous way though but as a term of affection 🌹
SW-User
It's kinda of trend, however feels weird
SW-User
definately creepy maybe its rooted in more incestuous times when that kind of thing was acceptable
Suethenudist · 31-35, F
Only thing i heard was other women saying the guy is their baby dady
DrWatson · 70-79, M
I find it very creepy. More than once on here, when I try to express that sentiment, I have been criticized for it.
SuperScooter · 31-35, M
Your UK dudes call their girls birds.. isn't that more creepy then?
DrWatson · 70-79, M
@SuperScooter "Bird" comes from "virda" which comes from virga which is the Latin word for young maiden. We get "virgin" from it. (If you have taken Spanish, you know how the b and v can be interchangeable in terms of their sounds, and this occurred a lot in derivations from Latin.)

Edit: I should give a nod to @Sueisright and point out a step I forgot, the word burde.
Sueisright · 31-35, F
@SuperScooter thick comes in many forms but you get this weeks award
SuperScooter · 31-35, M
@Sueisright stop acting like you can walk all over me!
I look like a human doormat to you?!
Muthafukajones · 46-50, M
It’s just a fetish
Ive been called daddy b4
scooogy · 31-35, MVIP
They should get treated like daughters then, just to see the weirdness in their words.
BackyardShaman · 61-69, M
They do and I dislike it
romell · 51-55, M
Viper · M
Basically what @LucyFuhr said, terms of endearment often don't make a lot of sense if you over think them. They're usually more silly nicknames, used to mean that person is special in some form or way.
Allelse · 36-40, M
You should look up those father daughter proms they have other there. Its this strange creepy Christian ritual they have where all these fathers takes their daughters to a prom and they all get dressed up dance with their daughters.
LikeTheSun · 22-25, F
yeah pretty creepy. when i was in high school girls would call their boyfriends (who were the same age as us) 'daddy' super gross and it makes no sense. also super gross.
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Coppercoil · M
It's hot and you are a prude.
Wedgy · 31-35, F
@Coppercoil No, it’s absolutely creepy

 
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