Do you typically initiate friendships, or do you just wait for people to talk to you? I lowkey...

I just treat people like we're already friends. Doesnt take long before I start getting invited places & then the relationship dissolves bc i keep cancelling. But you'll do great. Good luck.

BlueVeins · 22-25

I usually take the aggressive approach, fail, and then have [i]someone else[/i] reach out to me anyway.

Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M

Depends on the person, I kinda wait and then I realise i'm a loner by choice and I remember i don't have the energy for people. It takes so much going out and I'm just not a person who wants to go out all the time. I'm too chill tbh.

Nunlover

I'm shy as fuck so I wait ,hi

SW-User

You mean like start talking to people for the sole purpose of making friends?

DarkSideoftheMoon · 31-35, F

If you dont click you dont click. You can try but if it doesnt feel right, just try another time or with someone else

SW-User

I usually wait for people to talk to me, which is a terrible idea, seeing as it hasn't worked... ever, really.

YukikoAmagi

[c=#359E00]i need to be more aggresive too, i'm too shy[/c]

SW-User

I’m proactive online but I don’t initiate anything away from here.

SwampFlower · 31-35, F

I usually wait. Don't want to bother people.

Melpomene · 22-25, F

Both. If I initiate something it's usually "ehh, gotta say something so it wouldn't be so awkward" but most of the times people approach me first.

SW-User

I don't look for them. I'm happy with what I have. If someone wants to be friends, I'm open but it's not nessesary

SW-User

What is this friendship you speak of?

FreestyleArt · 31-35, M

I go with the flow because I don't know who I am.

JoeyFoxx · 51-55, M

I tie them up and make them like me

HannahSky · F

They seem to organically happen.

CaptainKirk · 41-45, M

Yes, be aggressive with me

StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M

I almost always wait.

Bushmanoz · 56-60, M

18-21, F, cute pic?..your inbox surely must be flooded

DDonde · 31-35, M

I'm just not very good at making friends IRL. It's a little easier on here, but if I waited for people to talk to me IRL, I would never get any friends. Or that's how it's mostly gone anyway. I prefer to wait for people to talk to me first because I always assume that they don't want me to talk to them in my head (or else they'd already have talked to me 🤪)
I appreciate those who have talked to me on here.