Does you heart ache because your spouse is oblivious that you're even there? Or are you more like, "Who cares, whatever".

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rckt148 · 61-69, M

It aches because I let her get away
I was almost over her ,but she wanted to talk
Now she wants to come back
Now my heart aches because I am torn
I want her back ,I still love her
But she did almost kill me

I know the roommate thing too
Not a good place to be
It can cost you someone that wants you

Tomorrow · 56-60, F

@rckt148 The roommate thing either ends up destroying things or you move into a whatever way of thinking. Neither is good.

rckt148 · 61-69, M

@Tomorrow I was trying to not let my son come from a broken home
so I let his Mom stay long after it was over
I fell in love with someone else ,she was my world
but she wanted my sons Mom gone ,,she gave me an ultimatum
I said I am not married but I do have a son to consider
She was tired of waiting
Now she is in the same boat ,and wants to come home
my sons Mom has been gone for years ,,I was almost over both of them
Now I am torn again
I advise people now if you have become a roommate find out where you stand
If you're not the one ,,then someone has to go
now my sons Mom is with someone else
and I am wishing I hadn't let any of this happen
I should have told my sons Mom it was time to go
We share our son ,and its works OK ,he is happy
but now my girl and I are not
and I don't know what to do ,,so I pray
hoping for the right answer
To get hurt again would kill me