Is it really needed?

My dad and I are not on good terms, since forever. He’s very verbally abusive and recently he just got pissed out of nowhere and stopped talking to me and my mom. Doesn’t pick up our calls/messages.
I’m so sick and tired of reaching out. I know he’s stressed about work and all but O don’t think it’s always fair to be the recipient of his anger for no bloody reason.

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Beatbox34 · 31-35, M

I understand that and I've been there. Don't pursue someone who doesn't give a damn about you or your mom.

CoyoteUglyChapter2 · 22-25, F

@Beatbox34 Yes, this has been happening for a long time now and I really want to give up.

Beatbox34 · 31-35, M

@CoyoteUglyChapter2 My dad never gave a shit about me as a kid and he made my miserable which is fucked up even after he's dead.

I used to want a father watching all the other kids but then I decided to fuck it and grow up without expecting. He never gave a shit about us till even when he died. That's how these people will be.

The less you expect, the lower the chances of getting hurt.

CoyoteUglyChapter2 · 22-25, F

I’m so sorry to hear that! I wanted to same too, when I see all my friends having a nice friendly father and I had to go home to him! Thank you for sharing! *hugs* @Beatbox34

Beatbox34 · 31-35, M

@CoyoteUglyChapter2 🤗🤗🤗