Is it really needed?

My dad and I are not on good terms, since forever. He’s very verbally abusive and recently he just got pissed out of nowhere and stopped talking to me and my mom. Doesn’t pick up our calls/messages.
I’m so sick and tired of reaching out. I know he’s stressed about work and all but O don’t think it’s always fair to be the recipient of his anger for no bloody reason.

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gobacktoyourroomandstudy

yes of course, your father needs anger/stress management. You should suggest that to him if you ever speak with him. Respect is a two way street. Of course you can't be on good terms with him if he just uses you as a punching bag. Girl you're not anyone's punching bag.

CoyoteUglyChapter2 · 22-25, F

Yeah he always tries to put me down , he needs to have the last word. So yeah no point talking to him. But thank you! @gobacktoyourroomandstudy

gobacktoyourroomandstudy

@CoyoteUglyChapter2 if he's toxic, well then you just gotta avoid him. That's what i do. Maybe you love your parents and you miss them if you don't speak to them...but it's not worth it if its affecting your mental health. It's better to be quiet and dismissive than to be rude. Learnt it the very hard way. Wouldn't want another person making the same mistake. Much love. x.

CoyoteUglyChapter2 · 22-25, F

@gobacktoyourroomandstudy I’m just hanging there for my mom, she’s very dependent on him. But yes, I get what you’re saying. Thank you ! Love

SinlessOnslaught · 26-30, M

I know how you feel. Your feelings are valid.

CoyoteUglyChapter2 · 22-25, F

@SinlessOnslaught Thank You!

KA9ha · 31-35, M

leave him alone... there is no stress from his workload that irritates his personality... there are four things which get him to drift away from his family and detach himself from his responsibilities .
a)some other woman may be getting his heart .
b)Money falling short and liability is too high.
c)Collection of Dowry /matri-wed money for child.
d) Given 30 days for his resignation.

Beatbox34 · 31-35, M

I understand that and I've been there. Don't pursue someone who doesn't give a damn about you or your mom.

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Beatbox34 · 31-35, M

@CoyoteUglyChapter2 My dad never gave a shit about me as a kid and he made my miserable which is fucked up even after he's dead.

I used to want a father watching all the other kids but then I decided to fuck it and grow up without expecting. He never gave a shit about us till even when he died. That's how these people will be.

The less you expect, the lower the chances of getting hurt.

CoyoteUglyChapter2 · 22-25, F

I’m so sorry to hear that! I wanted to same too, when I see all my friends having a nice friendly father and I had to go home to him! Thank you for sharing! *hugs* @Beatbox34

Beatbox34 · 31-35, M

@CoyoteUglyChapter2 🤗🤗🤗

in10RjFox · M

So he is living away from you and your mom ? Is he the only provider or does your mom earn too?

CoyoteUglyChapter2 · 22-25, F

He’s living with us. My moms sick. I mostly stay on campus but when I come home it’s just a bad vibe. @in10RjFox

in10RjFox · M

@CoyoteUglyChapter2 oh ok.. so all the enjoyment of being back home from campus is ruined and makes you wonder why you came home ..

Is mom getting the same treatment too ?

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