Persianboy23 · 26-30, M
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I have ended up eating bad stuff at great restaurants, bad mechanics who screwed my vehicle and also bad managers. Hope is still on :D @SW-User
Persianboy23 · 26-30, M
indyjoe · 56-60, M
I am a cautious and alert person because I have had trust violated, damaged, and destroyed so many times over. But yes I still do trust people...only so much and so far if I don't know them very well and there are ones I do know that I trust more than others. My wife is the only person on this entire planet that I trust 100%. I am very skeptical of strangers though...if they want my trust they have to earn it and prove themselves to be trustworthy (and that isn't easy, it takes time and effort).
indyjoe · 56-60, M
@SW-User I can relate...I was my parent's only biological child (severe complications prevented my mom from having any more) and they adopted another boy. He became their "golden child" the child they could never have and I was kind of pushed to the side. Everything was all about him even up until the day they died. He is extremely self-centered and can be very narcistic, and I am just a 'second class citizen' to him (we have never had a relationship of any kind). Even when I got married (both times) my wife became the "daughter" they wanted but could never have and they favored her over me. My first wife ate that up, but my wife now saw what was going on and resented it. I tried to create and maintain some kind of relationship with them through the years but it was always mediocre at best. Now through her family I have the family that I never had..."parents" and a "sister"....and they always make me feel welcomed and loved.
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@Beatbox34 I don't blame you.
KENZtheFRENZ · 31-35, F
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Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
@butterflymind1 Ahh just how I want to be.
SimplyLogicalDiscipline · 36-40, F
switchfoot · 36-40, M
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It depends on what i'd trust them with. So i'd trust many people with not stealing from me, yet i'd trust almost no one to be friends then suddenly disappear.