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When somebody asks for advice do u think they take it or do what they were gonna do regardless?

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MaryJanine · 61-69, F
That's a loaded-for-bear question. That depends on what the advice was asked for and the mindset of the person who asked the advice. They may already have their mind made up but are taking a poll with other people.

For instance - my brother who is on his second marriage asked me when he was between wives if he should marry the girl who gave him the money to divorce the first one." I feel SORRY for her,"he said.

I had heard stories about her running around, and I said, "I wouldn't. were I you."

He shrugged, did it anyway - and he has a lazy woman with no ambition today.
Star1 · F
@MaryJanine there u go Then, so the ansa is no, he was gonna do it anyway
MaryJanine · 61-69, F
@Star1 But the answer isn't always no. I gave an example from my life because I experienced it.
Star1 · F
@MaryJanine I think most people already know what they r going to do & (like somebody else said) r looking for confirmation.

Just my opinion
Star1 · F
@MaryJanine btw what does loaded for bear mean?
MaryJanine · 61-69, F
@Star1And more power to you. But there are just as many people, who I have never met and never will, who are unsure and lean one way, but after talking to others, change their opinion.
MaryJanine · 61-69, F
@Star1 It means, simply, that question or statement is a hot one.Everyone has an answer or opinion and they are certain THEY are right and everyone else is wrong.
Star1 · F