How do you feel about receiving unsolicited messages, and what do you do about them?

I'm really intrigued by how people feel about this matter. I hope for lots of dialogue on it. Admittedly, I'm sure I'm not the first to ask, but I think it's still a relevant question. What do you think?

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fallnhope · 36-40, F

I don't mind messages most times, but I typically don't respond to ones that just say "hi".... I need more to go on

splendid · 41-45, M

@fallnhope Agreed! Messages that look like that are written on the fly make no sense. Like, why did that person bother?

fallnhope · 36-40, F

@splendid exactly!

splendid · 41-45, M

@fallnhope It's a joy when I receive a well-written, thoughtful message from someone. I like it when it's apparent the other person took care with her/his message.

fallnhope · 36-40, F

@splendid I can imagine. It's been awhile since I've had a meaningful message here.

splendid · 41-45, M

@fallnhope Well, to paraphrase Humphrey Bogart, "This could be the start of something wonderful..." I'd like to think so!