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Should men have no feelings?

JarJarBoom · 41-45, F
All their feelings seem to lay in the tip of their penis
becca00f · 22-25, F
@JarJarBoom and their feelings are only for themselves
JarJarBoom · 41-45, F
haha..my last intention was to change this into a bashing session on the other gender...
Synyster · 51-55, M
ImKelsey · 26-30, F
Nothing but Spocks
smrlwrld · 22-25, M
@ImKelsey What's spocks?
ImKelsey · 26-30, F
@smrlwrld Star Trek
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@ImKelsey Oy! 😜
CharlieZ · 70-79, M
As a man, I have the feeling that this question is nonsense.
CharlieZ · 70-79, M
@smrlwrld Cos men, till last news I have, are human.
And emotions are intrinsic to the human species.
What may differ from women is the enphasis on some emotions instead of others and the way to act on them.
This, partly due to biological evolutive factors and also to social ones.
smrlwrld · 22-25, M
@CharlieZ Yeah, i guess that's what I meant, taking into consideration social standards, would it be better if we tried to get rid of them or not show them?
CharlieZ · 70-79, M
@smrlwrld No, I don´t think so.
But may be all deppends on what for.
Sometimes our kids (I´m a dad) and the woman at our side (no one for me right now) need a man to be calm.
Far from emotionless (that would be sick), but yes as a source of emotional stability, persistence and hope for better times.
Another way to say it, having long term emotions and passions intead of volatile, moody, short term ones.

But never, never settle for the emotionless as manly, just harmful nonsense.
Degbeme · 70-79, M
We do and some show it and some don`t. I show mine way too much.
eMortal · M
A man should have feelings only when the woman needs him to.
smrlwrld · 22-25, M
@eMortal Wouldn't that be putting ourselves at their mercy?
eMortal · M
@smrlwrld we already are. In an equal society women have the last say in the decision to get together. She chooses you and it's only then that the man's feelings towards her are good a thing to witness and enjoy. Not before, he'll look desperate. Not after the relationship, he'll look pathetic.
Quizzical · 46-50, M
We should have them, we should feel them, but we should not allow them to rule us or cloud our judgement.
raysam363 · 31-35, F
Men aren't allowed to have feelings.
TonyPajamas · 22-25
Yes. That’s why I got rid of all mine.
SW-User
Absolutely not
SW-User
Synyster · 51-55, M
Yes
caccoon · 36-40
Men are human beings. So of course they should, and do, have feelings.
MethDozer · M
Of course we do. Always have. However it's an importnat strength and virtue to learn how to control them and express them when and where it is appropriate. Being controlled by them is never a good thing. Nor are emotions a good metric to make decisions or judgements with.
Harriet03 · 41-45, F
@Degbeme @MethDozer [image deleted]
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@Harriet03 That goes without saying. I`m married. ;)
MethDozer · M
@Harriet03 Polar bear dip!!!!! Fun

 
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