Do you think nice equates with weak?

It seems many people think that being nice portrays them as weak. I think the opposite, abrasive people, argumentative, just plain jerks are generally weak people with a low sense of self worth.

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SW-User

We live in an age where cruelty is mistaken as strength, and kindness is mistaken for weakness. .

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@SW-User That's so twisted, isn't it ????? Even friends I've had gravitated toward loud, abrasive people, and I feel they view me as 'less' b/c I'm not this assertive, brash person. :/ It really sucks.. I see KIND or shy people as strong.