What makes you feel confident?
asking this question for the 34th time thinking that it'll give me some sort of insight instead of it just being "nothing im ugly lol" over and over again
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ThePerfectUsername · 70-79, M
I've failed at so many things in my life that as it gets closer to the end the few things I can do well tend to shine out like a beacon amongst the darker stuff I'd rather not spend any more time thinking about. I can guarantee the same sort of light will be within you too but until you've found it and recognised it for what it is then yep, seeing it can be tricky.
I don't know you from Adam, but even just a brief look at your profiles and recent posting habits suggests to me that you're quiet and somewhat reserved (i.e. not brash and cocky), that you care deeply, and that you perhaps over-emphasise the importance of other people's opinions of you when maybe you'd be better off forming a brand new opinion of yourself and sticking to it.
One thing I have learned to trust about me is my judgement of another person's worth. And I'd say that although you struggle with it you really could do with re-evaluating your self-worth because I like you, and with 170 people on my block list here there's obviously not very many here I can say that about.
I don't know you from Adam, but even just a brief look at your profiles and recent posting habits suggests to me that you're quiet and somewhat reserved (i.e. not brash and cocky), that you care deeply, and that you perhaps over-emphasise the importance of other people's opinions of you when maybe you'd be better off forming a brand new opinion of yourself and sticking to it.
One thing I have learned to trust about me is my judgement of another person's worth. And I'd say that although you struggle with it you really could do with re-evaluating your self-worth because I like you, and with 170 people on my block list here there's obviously not very many here I can say that about.