Which do you tend to do more, take care of yourself or take care of others?

Everyone does both, which do you do more often?

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The real secret, and the hard part, is to find a healthy happy balance between the two. The issue is when trying to help or be there for others, you can lose yourself. My phrase that I use a lot is "broken can't fix broken".