Which do you tend to do more, take care of yourself or take care of others?

Taking care of others, is taking care of something in myself. This could almost be considered a trick question.

Most often others. It's how I was even as a kid.

Take care of others. It’s a lot easier for me to deal with other people’s problems than to face my own

The real secret, and the hard part, is to find a healthy happy balance between the two. The issue is when trying to help or be there for others, you can lose yourself. My phrase that I use a lot is "broken can't fix broken".

I’m a wife, mother, and a teacher. That usually means putting others before myself.

Take care of others 😊

Others. Eventually I might make it a priority to get an appointment with my doctor and get my meds fixed, but with others having multiple appointments a week and all, I just don't make time for it.

I always take care of myself but for the next couple of months, I'll be taking care of Rooster while he is recuperating. Finally getting a chance to care for him like he should be.
Otherwise? It would be about equal, I suppose.

I think I prefer to take care of myself. I do try to help others when I feel like I can though.

Well... I focus on myself, at least. "Take care of" is a bit of a stretch I think.

Used to be others but sense dictates that it should be yourself except where someone has truly earned it in a reciprocal manner. So in short, more myself.

Taking care of others. I guess part of being an empath is others' happiness becoming my own

For a long time it's been others, but am working on myself as well now. :)

I feel like this sometimes.
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Its equal.

Always others.

Others ...