"You can love women or you can understand women, but never both". What are your thoughts on this statement?

In the regular and natural case, the two are usually connected, it's the definition of love that most people get mixed up with. A lot of people struggle with what the definition of love is. Most people believe they should love whatever they can find in a person that they expect to get, something like satisfying a need. Some people want to possess women as trophy wives and mix that with love.