When someone severly hurts your feelings, do you clam up, cry, or do you get just outright mad and vocal?

I think about it. Growing up neglected, I never really gave any weight to my emotions, so I hardly ever react in the moment. The initial reaction is feeling like I let that person down, because that's more of what my childhood was like.

It usually takes a few days to process, and I almost always never reach a clear verdict. Maybe they were seeing something I wasn't or maybe they're just pieces of shit. Maybe I'm not as good a person as I thought or maybe they were having a rough day. There's a lot that can be going on, and I'll never know the real truth