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Is it cruel for a girl to prefer to date tall guys?

I really don't think so. If people can have their right to not date obese people then such harmless preferences should just apply universally.
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JonathanC · 61-69, M
You have a right to your preferences. Odd that this would even be an issue.
Oddly... when I was in school it seemed the only girls I dated were the short ones and I'm 6'-7".

This prevailed throughout the first years of my career as well... there just didn't seem to be any tall girls to date.

And then I was sent to SE Asia for a long-term work assignment - go figure. I met my wife there and she is just over 5 feet tall....

I often joke that we were destined to be with each other so that we could have "normal height" children.

But alas - the kids are all well over 6 feet tall.
Shayla · F
Everyone has preferences. Whether the people you prefer also prefer you, well, there's no guarantees.
SW-User
@Shayla Agreed
JupiterDreams · 31-35
I don't think it's cruel... unless you reject them harshly.

Personally I don't care about height, though most guys I've been attracted to tend to be pretty tall... and beanpoles. 😳
eMortal · M
It's shallow but it's your choice.
BigRon · 41-45, M
No. We all have our preferences. It's what you are attracted to, and what type of person turns you on. It can all change, however, if you meet someone you love and he/she is not your fantasy person.
deadgerbil · 26-30, M
I don't think so. Then again, I'm tall so... 😹
fyoubrain · 46-50, M
Not cruel necessarily, just shallow. But if the girl only dates tall guys, would you offended if the guy only dates skinny/fit/thin girls?
fyoubrain · 46-50, M
@JonathanC see Emortal's comment. 👆️
SW-User
@fyoubrain I personally wouldn't because i'm not fat but if I were, No I wouldn't be offended because I don't take their preferences personally.
JonathanC · 61-69, M
@fyoubrain And he's just as wrong as you are.
SW-User
It's a choice. I really like tall guys
Reject · 26-30, M
Well obese people have a choice. Short people don’t. I’m not saying it’s cruel or anything, but there is a difference there.
SW-User
@Reject True, but I doubt many people care about that when it comes to what they consider attractive.
Reject · 26-30, M
@SW-User I care, but you’re right, many don’t. I’ll happily not be attracted to someone over their health, something they could have helped, but I’d feel bad about rejecting someone over something they couldn’t.
ShaythePanTransMan · 22-25, T
As a very short guy, it’s totally cruel lol
SW-User
aw. lol
ShaythePanTransMan · 22-25, T
@SW-User :’)
JonathanC · 61-69, M
I suspect the naysayers here are all a bunch of shrimps put out at losing a chance at the fair Ceciliana's favors.

 
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