Has social media impacted your real life in any way?
Have you made changes in real life because of something you learned online?
51-55, F
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JoyfulSilence · 51-55, M
It has made me more sociable. I used to not communicate with anybody, more or less.
I still am like that offline, yet when I do chat it is easier.
The biggest help is that I learned women actually like me. Gosh, I wish I were physically desirable so a woman would be interested in me on sight, initially, and then maybe want to talk. Usually they look at me in disgust if I am looking at them.
On here I can win them over with my words well before they see how fat, old, and ugly I am.
Now, women on here often say I am not ugly, and they like me. They never say they want to be my boyfriend, though. They are always full of advice on how to meet women but none ever want to be that woman I meet. They tell me I hope I find her when usually I don't want these imaginary women, I want to be with the woman who is advising me.
I want a cuddle buddy not an advisor. Sigh.
I still am like that offline, yet when I do chat it is easier.
The biggest help is that I learned women actually like me. Gosh, I wish I were physically desirable so a woman would be interested in me on sight, initially, and then maybe want to talk. Usually they look at me in disgust if I am looking at them.
On here I can win them over with my words well before they see how fat, old, and ugly I am.
Now, women on here often say I am not ugly, and they like me. They never say they want to be my boyfriend, though. They are always full of advice on how to meet women but none ever want to be that woman I meet. They tell me I hope I find her when usually I don't want these imaginary women, I want to be with the woman who is advising me.
I want a cuddle buddy not an advisor. Sigh.
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
@JoyfulSilence You never know when someone is going to be attracted to you. I hope you get that in real life because touch is phenomenal.
JoyfulSilence · 51-55, M
@Fungirlmmm Yes, I need it so bad. It sounds so exciting yet so scary.
I just learned one of my friends on here is close by. But I am old enough to be her father!
Another woman is flirty with me but she is married. It all makes me a little nervous.
I just learned one of my friends on here is close by. But I am old enough to be her father!
Another woman is flirty with me but she is married. It all makes me a little nervous.
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
@JoyfulSilence I understand. I just wish you could have a connection in real life.