Do you think your crush will know that you have a crush on him/her if you keep ignoring him/her?

If someone were to ignore me I'd think he's not interested.

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indyjoe · 56-60, M

I agree...the way I was I used to say that the worst thing a girl/woman could do is play "hard to get" because I would pursue but was not one for a chase. The old saying "He chased her until she caught him" never worked on me.

TheIncredibleHulka · 31-35, F

@indyjoe What if someone is just being shy and not playing "hard to get"?
I say this coz I used to be very shy around my crush and never let them know about anything... But then that was stupid, how would they know unless you told them?

indyjoe · 56-60, M

@TheIncredibleHulka Like I said, I would pursue...I would try to let my interest be known and I would give them several attempts to respond. I knew the difference in shy and playing hard to get, but I wasn't one to keep trying if there just wasn't any show of interest at all (too quiet and shy wasn't for me, though I didn't care for the loud extremely extroverted either). If a girl told me she had a boyfriend or that she was interested in someone else I didn't try at all after that first attempt.