tough love vs coddling and commiserating?

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SW-User Best Comment

Well, both. We need soft love to feel warm and to feel secure in ourselves and emotion. But we also need tough love so we can feel strong, independent, and growth. Each way has its own benefit.

texasdaddydom · 51-55, M

@SW-User Give this best answer!

biohak · 36-40, M

@SW-User tough love is warm though maybe not what some people call tough love but actual tough love .. how are we difining it? for me its just doing the right thing for the person no matter what

biohak · 36-40, M

@texasdaddydom i expected more domsub replies lol

SW-User

@biohak Of course, tough love is also warm. It shows us that the other person wants us to grow. They love us, so that is why they want us to grow by using the tough side of love. Because they want the best for us.

Platoscave · F

@biohak look at mine dude.