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Do u think I should have a baby before I get married ? 馃懄馃懅馃懚

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get married first then have a baby. I don't know. I kinda like it better the other way around. Because marriage is tough..nothing is guaranteed.
What do you think. Baby first dammit. 馃槧
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Budwick70-79, M
Your way nearly ensures failure in life.

At least finish high school, get a full-time job and wait until age 21 to get married and have children.

Only 2% of people following this formula end up in poverty. Nearly 75鈥塸ercent have joined the middle class (defined as earning around $55,000 or more per year).

But, I'm sure everything will work out just fine for you.
Zonuss41-45, M
@Budwick Sir. Are you even aware of the number of men and women who do this? I can name a thousand people who have had their children first and don't regret it.
Money isn't a problem not for me. But it's the complications of marriage. You have to be sure you're not married to a crazy person and that they will do what's in the best interest of the child. 馃檪
Budwick70-79, M
@Zonuss Like I said Zone, I'm sure everything will work out just fine for you. Statistics are for suckers, right?
Zonuss41-45, M
@Budwick Yes they are. 馃檪
Zonuss41-45, M
@Budwick You have a very small mind. Most working people have enough to get them by I'm life. You stupid fucks don't even know what poverty is. If you could see sheer poverty you would change your mind. Having two cars and a house isn't poverty. I can drive through any neighborhood and see this. America is blessed. You have no idea. Zero. 馃檪
Budwick70-79, M
@Zonuss Hey Zone Boy - don't shoot the messenger! Brookings Institute is one of many that do not recommend having children outside of marriage. I mean, besides common sense.
Zonuss41-45, M
@Budwick Like I said you have a small mind. You come from a shit hole. So I doubt you even know how people manage in a steady middle class family. My family has lots and property. We weren't built from welfare. We built it ourselves. 馃檪
Budwick70-79, M
@Zonuss I'm sure your mom and dad did very well for themselves.