bragging and pride

is pride a good thing?is there any use in it? is there any way bragging is good or is that inherently bad? the problem is I love to brag, but not online I like the reactions I can get in people from bragging and I hate That I love bragging. obviously too much of anything is a bad thing bragging pride. I also get jealous easily and thats probably why I like bragging. I stop myself from bragging often and honestly i dont have too much to brag about to i pick one thing to brag about over and over. what is your way of dealing with wanting to brag?

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ViciDraco · 36-40, M

As in many things there is a balance.

Pride can lead to good self esteem and positive mental health when it focused towards accomplishments and things you generally feel are good about yourself.

Pride is negative when it becomes a way for someone to easily insult or anger you, or to the point where you must manipulate facts and perceptions to create an illusion that sustains your pride.

Myself, I typically brag to try to gain acceptance or positive attention. I stop myself if I'm not interested in those around me or if people start giving me too much credit. Though I am often accused more of humility than pride by others in general.