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What would you do if you found that you were suddenly unable to climax?

My husband has grown increasingly frustrated as I’ve become embarrassed. I don’t know what’s going on, which adds to even more anxiety...
kentex35 · 100+, M
Relax. It happens. It's short term.The more you worry the longer and more pronounced it'll get. Unless you're got some deep experience or fetish you're holding back on . I'd say slow down. Some time when you know you're not going to have sex talk about it. Be honest. It'd you say something of hand the other may think you really mean it. If you're in love it'll be easier too. I had a gal that thought something I did tickled and said good eventually she wasn't laughing ad much as looking forward.. anyway don't put to much stressful importance on out do it for fun first then procreation lol. I'm gonna get excommunicated. Make sense?🤔
ozgirl512 · 26-30, F
I think relationships have the tendency to go stale at times... Maybe a change of routine?
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
Are you on anxiety or other meds? Have you changed your diet in some way?
turmoil · F
@Fungirlmmm I stopped taking my anti depressants since we decided on trying to get pregnant.
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
@turmoil Check with your doctor and see if changing them or deleting them could have some odd side effects. I know that my ex took anxiety meds and stopped because he couldn't reach climax. He really couldn't after that and back to the doctor he went and found out that stopping that medication cold turkey caused it. I can't remember the name of the drug. It could also be the thought of becoming a parent. That would be a happy anxiety. If everything else us going okay I would definitely talk to a doctor. Sexuality is too important not to make that trip to the doctor to check out physical reasons for it. If those are clear maybe ask for a referral to a counselor. I hope it works out for you and you become a great mommy to a beautiful baby.
polyandrym66 · 70-79, M
Switch things up. You should be able to have many different types of orgasms from different zones besides vaginal penetration.
Teach him to suck on your clit, by offering to 69 with him.
Have him suckle your breast and nipple while laying face up on your lap while you stroke him.
Teach him the best way to masturbate you with his hands.. Then move on to sex toys..
Just a few.. I don't know your body, but you do..
Endomorph · 56-60, M
See your doctor, and without shame.
i would get a full blood work done, youll find its usually low fat soluable vitamins that cause this.. either from low vitamin d, too much sugar, rescricitve diets or a messed up gall bladder.
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Pfuzylogic · M
Don’t be hesitant to see professional therapists.
PTCdresser57 · 61-69, M
Relax...it will happen again.

 
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