How many abortions is too many?

My friend and I were arguing because I believe that if someone has an abortion, that's a really big deal and I'm not sure I could be their freind if I knew.

However my friend believes that in this day and age, a woman should be able to have 3 abortions before people have the right to judge them. But anything past 3 is really bad.

Who's right?

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SW-User

abortion is mentally and physically risky. i wont judge someone who has pain and fear to have a child, but if someone aborts and feels they are empowered by it it becomes disgusting on a whole other level

bijouxbroussard · F

@SW-User No. A rape or incest victim is sometimes empowered and able to put the worst chapter of her life behind her.

SW-User

@bijouxbroussard Stop talking crap, most women have abortions because of unprotected sex. I've seen it with my own eyes. peoples first excuse is rape, if someones really a victim i wont judge. but you cant tell me every abortion is due to rape.

bijouxbroussard · F

@SW-User I was not rude to you, nor did I say every woman who chooses abortion was raped...did I ? And I do think 3 times indicates irresponsibility. But you don’t necessarily know why a stranger is choosing to have an abortion. Rape is underreported, forced incest even more so. But the bottom line is, if it’s not your body, it’s really not your business anyway. It’s not like you’re going to pay for her prenatal care or help her raise the child.

SW-User

@SW-User It's a funny question to find myself in, but really having a father who was a foster child I happen to like to like the idea where one wants a child has one and there is options for those that don't want children.

ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M

@bijouxbroussard No use in arguing, Bijou -- some people only read what they want to hear -- excuse the mixed sensory options in that line, please -- to have an excuse to get outraged.

SW-User

@bijouxbroussard there's plenty of option for the child after birth, if people dont take responsibility they shouldnt have sex, and that goes for the people who do it mindlessly not rape victims. and no it's not just their body, the body growing inside doesnt get a choice, so I don't agree.

ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M

@SW-User No one cares if you agree -- if you don't like abortions don't have one. Simple. Just don;t try and force your opinions on the rest of the world.

SW-User

@ChipmunkErnie sorry I can say the same to you. No one has to agree with that inhumane act. watch a few abortion videos and tell me it's okay, I already know you're giving a heartless answer.

bijouxbroussard · F

@SW-User We were both alive when women and girls had no choices. You want to talk about heartless—look in the mirror.

Harriet03 · 41-45, F

@SW-User Speaking as a Nurse, YOU really have absolutely no idea!!
Explain your view to a Rape or Incest victims.

SW-User

@bijouxbroussard You argument doesn't match up with what I just said. Arbotion isn't about womens right, it's about the child. I see no point in arguing. My opinion wont change because you want to be right

SW-User

@Harriet03 You didn't read shit of what I wrote. you being a nurse changes nothing

Harriet03 · 41-45, F

@SW-User You avoided my simple question!!
I just hope it doesn't happen, to someone close to you.
Have a nice day ✌

SW-User

@Harriet03 no i didnt avoid a question as i said i dont judge victims of rape so again you didnt read shit of what i wrote. youre just too deep in your arrogance wanting to be right but honestly you gained nothing.

daisymay · 51-55, T

@SW-User No, you said that most rape victims aren't really victims and that you alone know the difference.

And then you had the gall to claim someone was arrogant.