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What Is Up With This?

I am depressed over the hurting on this site. I am a happy guy and no one believes that I want to help them. What is wrong with all you angry people?
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Gusman · 61-69, M
Best not to ask people to ask you for help. Comes across as condescending.
Best to only respond to those who ask for help/advice via their own post. Many have tried what you are asking, all have failed.
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Gusman · 61-69, M
@JacobMacon So do a lot of people. Many people give advice when it is asked for. But they do not ask others to come to them with their problems. That is not how it works.
Look at is from this perspective.
A new person comes on here, and asks everyone to tell him their problems and he will give them a hug and empathy etc. No disrespect but it sounds a bit too preachy.
You go to them. Don't ask them to come to you. I'm not being nasty here. Simply telling you as it is.
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Gusman · 61-69, M
@JacobMacon I'm not doubting your real. Of course your real. Advise people when they seek advice is what I am saying. Otherwise you are going to have a negative impression of this community.
Many have been here from the start. They have learnt to ignore the spiteful people, the extreme fetishists, the pervs, et al. Try not to take it to heart too much and you will have a positive experience.