Describe your ideal partner be very specific.

@Groofydorkgerdo My first wife was that way, I understand completely.

Wow.. That sucks but is all to common in this day and age.@Groofydorkgerdo

@Groofydorkgerdo maybe she saw the real YOU

@Fernie I let her know I was a dick when we first met..
Every one I know knows im an asshole.
Never hid the fact.

@Groofydorkgerdo and your assholeness changed her, got to be too much...I'm on her side

[@Ferninor She is as she always was, no would I chamge her.
We have grown to love each other more now that when we first met.
We have both learned to accept each other, faults, failures, and short comings and all.
Thats why we've been together longer than many people have been alive.
Two hearts strong enough to love each other despite the others faults can overcome many, many hardships, many obstacles.

@Groofydorkgerdo ??? then what does this mean? "The person my wife pretended to be when we first met"

@Fernie Exactly what it says.
Its not difficult ...

@Groofydorkgerdo make up your mind...she pretended which indicates she faked who she was YET then you say "She is as she always was, no would I chamge her." pick a lane. I'm done here with your inconsistency

@Fernie 🤭

@SW-User Did she remove her comments?

@Groofydorkgerdo She is just done with the inconsistencies

@SW-User What inconsistencies?