how important is it to have some one who mothers you?
im really torn about my relationship with my mom, I do not know what to do. I like her as a person but not as a mom, she is not a good mom to me, she used to be a better mom when i was a kid but now she does not care about my feelings and physical health, I can be throwing up ask for her to go to the store and get me medication and she lectures me how bad medication is how that is not the way to solve the problem and never gets it for me she comes back with herbal medication that does not even help.
anyway how important it is to have someone like a mother in your life who parents you like a mother? my dad just does not seem like enough. I have been feeling really sick lately my stomach hurts and I wish someone was there to tell me it is not my fault not something i did to cause it.
its hard to me to be indifferent or mean to my mom because it makes my dad angry and I want him to be happy with me, but my mom needs to understand i am not going to treat her like a mom she is just a roommate to me. the problem is my dad will be mad if I do not treat her like a mom.
I have always put in all my energy and effort int helping her telling her about my life i but the worse she treated me the more secrets i keep form her the more things i do that she does not like. and yet she still thinks our relationship is great that I think she is a good parent and she isnt. she told me she does not like my presents and presents in general are a way for people to buy junk and collect useless junk. I get upset start crying and she tells me I am over reacting, she does not like children, she told me that she wanted children until she had me.
how do I get my point across without making my dad angry?
anyway how important it is to have someone like a mother in your life who parents you like a mother? my dad just does not seem like enough. I have been feeling really sick lately my stomach hurts and I wish someone was there to tell me it is not my fault not something i did to cause it.
its hard to me to be indifferent or mean to my mom because it makes my dad angry and I want him to be happy with me, but my mom needs to understand i am not going to treat her like a mom she is just a roommate to me. the problem is my dad will be mad if I do not treat her like a mom.
I have always put in all my energy and effort int helping her telling her about my life i but the worse she treated me the more secrets i keep form her the more things i do that she does not like. and yet she still thinks our relationship is great that I think she is a good parent and she isnt. she told me she does not like my presents and presents in general are a way for people to buy junk and collect useless junk. I get upset start crying and she tells me I am over reacting, she does not like children, she told me that she wanted children until she had me.
how do I get my point across without making my dad angry?
