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Why is it that I'm always attracted to problematic/weird and sketchy girls?

I, for real, don't do it on purpose, in fact, I wish I wasn't attracted to girls who are like that, I wish I could be content with regular, nice girls like all of my friends but I can't. Whenever I'm getting into a relationship with a "normal" girl, I feel like something is lacking, I get bored really fast and when they're too emotional I'm just like done, I can't stand that, if they're either too clingy or overly sweet, I'm telling you, I get diabetes right away. I mean, I do like when they show their love, just not in the traditional way, being too sweet or emotional really puts me off. I don't know what it is, but I'm usually attracted to troubled girls, and not like the ones who pretend to be troubled, I mean the real trouble makers that are gonna make your life a living hell. I always end up depressed and complaining after the relationship is over but IDK why I can't really be attracted to regular people, other girls are just boring to me and childish, so to say, I don't even know how to describe it. I was thinking about my past girlfriends and I realized not a single one of them was "normal", they were all either very promiscuous and everybody told me not to trust them, had real psychological problems like depression or bipolar disorder, were very aggressive overall, were into stuff that would shock pretty much everybody. Like I said, I kinda wish it wasn't like that, it always gets me into a lot of trouble, and I didn't realize I was only attracted to this kinda girls until recently, my question is why does this happen?
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Mindful · 56-60, F
You’re Xdicted to “feelings” and emotion... they draw your compassion. When you realize you can’t fix people... you will tire of it. When you set your own goals and are drawn to your own purpose in life you will move on. But as long long as you are drawn to “saving” girls from themselves or life, you will be sucked in by the drama. Is possible you are drawn to the fact they have had to grow up fast and there’s no time for bullshit, but their bullshit is still there and in the way if you are Geri g tore le of them/it.i guess you are a compassionate person, who wants a girl to feel cared about. Someday you’ll realize or meet a sweet girl that also needs your love, , oh wait... you don’t want to love someone like that because it doesn’t have enough drama? Or pain to draw you in.... yet your other relationships don’t last? Strange.