Is it always wrong to cheat?

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creep

be misirable

leave and hit rock bottom

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At what point does someone try to make them self happy. Say someone is married but there is not physical contact except the obligation sex every 2weeks or once a mouth. If you leav you will lose your kids and most of the thing you have worked for? So creep or lose everything?

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VeronicaJane

Cheating is selfish and dishonest.

Need to discuss your unmet needs with her. She in turns needs to tell you her unmet needs.

Need to figure out what you can do about each others needs.

BTW - Witholding physical intimacy from your spouse is as wrong as cheating.

If you can not meet the needs, then discuss what can be done to meet them. Would you be surprised if she wants to play on the side too?

lonelylonelyer · 31-35, M

@VeronicaJane if she would just talk to me we could move forward i have tried like five times and it just goes back after a few days

VeronicaJane

@lonelylonelyer so it is a start. The next question is what happens after a few days? Seems like something is missing.

Also can be challenging with young kids.