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ImElfo · 31-35, M
Yes you are

On another answer you commented that you aren't 100% committed. Maybe she knows that and is also keeping her options open. Maybe if you were both completely committed she'd lose interest in her friends on Tinder. Because let's be honest friends on Tinder are just future dates. If you want real friends can you really find that on Tinder??
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@dragonfly46 You’re right. Maybe I am just being an ass. It’s time to have the talk
@SW-User I don't know about being an ass but you shouldn't expect more than you yourself are willing to give. Maybe your annoyance was just you telling yourself that you want more. Hope things work out for you.
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Thanks for that. ❤️@dragonfly46
That sucks. It is disturbing. I'd probably be so turned-off by it that I'd cut off the relationship, at that point. My first boyfriend was on dating sites and porn sites. He tried to keep it hidden from me, but it was one of the many factors that sent me running.

She told you you were overreacting?? What's the appeal of staying with someone like that? You wouldn't do that, would you? ...
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@lovelywarpedlemon I am not on porn sites or dating sites. We actually met on tinder when we were both single. I’d expect her to at least quit it when we went into the relationship. She tells me she made friends there and is very open with me about it but I am still disturbed about her being there. It’s meh. Sorry about your breakup although I dont think its your loss, its more his.
Prisoner619 · 26-30, M
I used to open tinder in front of my ex.

Had always been there. But I never cheated or even flirted with anyone there when I'm in a relationship.


I think having options is important to me because let's face it , most relationships just don't last.
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@Prisoner619 Options is good when you’re still young and have all the years ahead of you to make mistakes
Prisoner619 · 26-30, M
@SW-User yeah. If you both planned a long term future and are fully committed then tell her to shut the fuck up and delete.


Ask her to explain the reason for still being there.

Or maybe she isn't 100% committed to you?
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@Prisoner619 I’m not 100% committed to her. But at least I won’t be found on a dating site.
How old is she? Ill answer your question after you tell me lol
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@SW-User my sister dates a lot & uses dating sites so she has a lot of contacts. She gets an entirely new number when shes committed. Lol she ghosts like 30 people. Savage😂
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@DarlingSelah Oh god no. Catherine is not like that 😂
ItsRichard · M
If you are together exclusive? It’s not cool why still hunting for someone else to date?
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@ItsRichard She’s not hunting. She’s talking to some people she used to talk to platonically
ItsRichard · M
@SW-User if that’s the case then it’s just friends I wouldn’t worry
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
Yeah I wouldn’t like that. Like someone still going on a dating site it’s so annoying.
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@PaleandPolluted Right ? And she doesnt get why I am mad at her. 😂
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@SW-User she’s pretending she doesn’t know. Playing it down.
Why does she need to talk to people wanting to date? Weird
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@RemovedUsername650611 I dont fucking know. I wouldnt be messing around here if she was upfront with me about it
Smikezz2 · 46-50, M
How long have you two been together?
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@Smikezz2 Third week now
Smikezz2 · 46-50, M
@SW-User are you two invested in your relationship so far
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@Smikezz2 We are... to some extent
Tminus6453 · M
I'd be disturbed if it was my S.O😑
TheEldersnout · 31-35, F
Hm, I realize that this is quite a while ago, and all I have to say is that you're quite a lille (little=lille) drama-damn-queen, ain't you? Keep seeking out the attemtion which in the same post you say you don't want. You must be one of a hell of work to keep as a girlfriend lol. ;b
That’s not cool at all
Yeah thats..not cool
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Sujeet · 31-35, M

 
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