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Some people genuinely do have an attraction for people who are not height weight proportionate... and, fortunately for those of us with a little extra meat on our bones, it isn't always about the desire to feed them up into something that they may not necessarily want to be.
It's not really fair to question what body type someone should be into without actually knowing that person as an individual in the same way as we can't really be judging people who love older or younger people than themselves. Sometimes, we get so wrapped up in trying to figure out people's motives that we could miss out on something that could be beautiful because we were too busy trying to work out if this person was trying to poke fun at us or something instead.
It's not really fair to question what body type someone should be into without actually knowing that person as an individual in the same way as we can't really be judging people who love older or younger people than themselves. Sometimes, we get so wrapped up in trying to figure out people's motives that we could miss out on something that could be beautiful because we were too busy trying to work out if this person was trying to poke fun at us or something instead.
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Mamapolo2016 · F
@HootyTheNightOwl I can't speak for others but I don't fall in love with shoulders or butts. It's the brain and heart that's my fetish.
@Mamapolo2016 Exactly!!! A good brain and a heart that's in the right place are both attractive qualities that I look for, too.
Don't get me wrong, it doesn't hurt to have a partner that's attractive to look at for whatever reason, but we don't always retain those qualities for the rest of our lives - whereas our internal qualities tend to remain constant regardless of our weight, age and/or illnesses.
Don't get me wrong, it doesn't hurt to have a partner that's attractive to look at for whatever reason, but we don't always retain those qualities for the rest of our lives - whereas our internal qualities tend to remain constant regardless of our weight, age and/or illnesses.
Mamapolo2016 · F
@HootyTheNightOwl I have nothing against pretty scenery and I try to provide it for others. But gorgeous as the beach may be, eventually there will come a storm.
Dionysus · 41-45, F
Don't be an ass
Byron8by7 · M
There are types of women that I find attractive that are described as follows: Chubby, chunky, overweight, fat, big boned, plus sized, curvaceous, big and beautiful. I like women with physical abundance who are sane and healthy and accept themselves as they are. It is a preference of mine.
TimSummers · M
I can not speak for others but I find a full figured woman very attractive.
Mamapolo2016 · F
My roommate in college was blind. Partway through freshman year she began answering 'wanna go out for pizza Friday?' with 'Let's start here. Do you need to rescue girls? 'Cause I don't need rescued.'
Some people do things for reasons that aren't obvious. Some people have fetishes. Some people are just people. Your mission, figure out which is which.
Some people do things for reasons that aren't obvious. Some people have fetishes. Some people are just people. Your mission, figure out which is which.
Fernie · F
I totally get your question. Chubby chasers have always annoyed me because that is a big part of the attraction for them...they think chubby people are always desperate for ...everything. They sicken me. Not the same as men who genuinely like women with some size to them for healthy reasons
Dontbeanass · 36-40, F
@Fernie right?! I’m chubby but that doesn’t mean I’m desperate. If you only want me because you think I’ll put out because I’m big you’re wrong and I can easily find someone who wants me for me. But if you are genuinely attracted to a little extra I think that’s awesome! Too many people feel like they have to be stick thin to feel attractive.
Fernie · F
@Dontbeanass Yes! I am SO happy that you are so aware of it...many women fall for it then realize the guy is a pig and are humiliated. Good for you for having so much self respect!!!!
joesand99 · 41-45, M
Everyone has their own likes and dislikes. Some like you, some love you, some don't like you. It is what it is.
TonyPajamas · 22-25
It depends on the chubby lol I like thicker girls. So it’s genuine 😂
Mamapolo2016 · F
Maybe they know that people who look attractive sometimes are not.
Some do. And some are opportunists.
SW-User
I love husky guys I think they look strong and masculine. Sexy af
Kevinw63 · 46-50, M
A lot of pretty chubby girls out there
Goralski · 56-60, M
All women put out...few exceptions
Eddiesolds · 61-69, M
I d say,be nice. They are human too.
Eddiesolds · 61-69, M
@Dontbeanass ok.no worries! Have a nice day!
Eddiesolds · 61-69, M
@Dontbeanass sorry for going off on you!
Dontbeanass · 36-40, F
No worries. A lot of people are rude to chubby people so I get why you said that.
SW-User
Someone close to me is overweight and she is not a chubby chaser. 😏
Fernie · F
@SW-User Chubby chasers are not the chubby person they are the non chubby people who chase after chubby people because they think chubby people are desperate and will do stuff to and for the chubby chaser...see?
SW-User
@Fernie "Thanks"
Mamapolo2016 · F
Do you think it's not possible they find them attractive?
Dontbeanass · 36-40, F
@Mamapolo2016 I’m chubby and have a hard time thinking I look attractive so I’m wondering if it’s that they actually like the extra fluff
Mamapolo2016 · F
@Dontbeanass I once read that what we see as household dust is mostly meteor fragments and skin cells.
See it as dirt, or see it as stardust and you. It's perception.
See it as dirt, or see it as stardust and you. It's perception.
SW-User
Perhaps they do like that why would you care?
Dontbeanass · 36-40, F
@SW-User I’m chubby so I’m curious
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
No, I believe they dig it. I don't get it, but it's a thing.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
The self-proclaimed "chubby chasers" are probably of the kind who have a fetish, so they do find it arousing.
But do note that not everyone who likes chubby girls are "chubby chasers"
But do note that not everyone who likes chubby girls are "chubby chasers"
Mamapolo2016 · F
@MartinTheFirst A great many chubby people are liked and loved because they are likeable and lovable. It is a safe assumption that they are not fixated on their own reflection.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@Mamapolo2016 O K