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Do you want me to see you as my equal or as a woman

It is very hard to respect a person who on one day wishes to be looked at as my equal. On the next day when things are difficult she wishes to be looked upon and treated like a woman. This is very complicated but it is making men like myself very reluctant and uneasy around female counterparts.

Also I saw a news story where a woman slapped a man and spit on him while he was eating. The man stood up and punched her one time he broke her jaw. Everyone is angry at the man they say he has abused a woman. Unfortunately in the world that I live in if a man slapped another man and spit on him he would expect to get punched. This once again brings up the question do you want us to look at you as ladies or do you want us to look at you as equals?
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tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
Men and women are equal.We bring different things to the table sure.That woman was wrong to initiate things.Men and women both have the same rights to not be subjected to that and to defend ourselves.
When I was 18 and splitting up with my 25 year old boyfriend he tried to slap me.Dumb move,I had a karate first Dan black belt and I can wrestle, which he already knew.I stopped him and retaliated savagely.By the time my parents got me off him I had scratched punched kicked and thrown him like a rag doll,pretty much beating him to a pulp.They got him to the ER.
Capt11 · 46-50, M
@tallpowerhouseblonde Thank you for taking the time to respond. I do agree with some of what you said. I wish the world could be more on the same page with this issue. I hope you have an outstanding
tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
@Capt11 Thank you I will.
Sharon · F
@tallpowerhouseblonde [quote]By the time my parents got me off him I had scratched punched kicked and thrown him like a rag doll,pretty much beating him to a pulp.[/quote]
According to "real men" (better known as violent thugs), if he had attempted to defend himself he would have been in the wrong, "a woman beater".
tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
@Sharon I believe that too.He did try to defend himself he just failed and he initiated things.