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Do you want me to see you as my equal or as a woman

It is very hard to respect a person who on one day wishes to be looked at as my equal. On the next day when things are difficult she wishes to be looked upon and treated like a woman. This is very complicated but it is making men like myself very reluctant and uneasy around female counterparts.

Also I saw a news story where a woman slapped a man and spit on him while he was eating. The man stood up and punched her one time he broke her jaw. Everyone is angry at the man they say he has abused a woman. Unfortunately in the world that I live in if a man slapped another man and spit on him he would expect to get punched. This once again brings up the question do you want us to look at you as ladies or do you want us to look at you as equals?
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rckt148 · 61-69, M
Cap the made me laugh a belly laugh
It reminded me of a time I squared off with this black girl in school .
I envisioned me getting her in a head lock ,still holding my books and papers
and she would know she met a boy not taking her crap ,and it would be over

It ended with me seeing stars ,my books and papers all over the playground .
and her standing over me asking me if I wanted some more .

From that day on my Dads rule ended 1/2 my problems
Since that day I have never fought another girl ,for any reason ,and I have been slapped .

But no guy is doing that to me ,I would ask someone to hold my beer and my books
Capt11 · 51-55, M
@rckt148 Thank you for the reply you are a man similar to me. I would not engage in that type of violence either I realized that whenever you hit a woman you can never win and you will always be wrong. However a guy will not be that lucky. I Understand because I think like that I do not treat everyone the same however I am trying to be a better man.
rckt148 · 61-69, M
@Capt11 just you saying that would imply to me you already are
its the people that don't get we all could stand to improve that never change
Some values instilled in me will never change ,like hitting woman
(well unless I can't tell she is a woman and she is hitting on my woman ,I will repent for that one afterwards I guess LOL)
I was raised to be a souther gentleman (Grandma influence )
Have a good one and thanks for the laugh
Capt11 · 51-55, M
Like always it was nice hearing from you