I need someone to talk to rn

@KaiserSolze she cut herself and started crying. It was like 2 am I listened to her and didn't she how bad it was cut and woke my brother up they both are elder to me.she got emotional and held his wrist while I was searching for door keys but eventually he fainted and his body became rock solid

@kingofhearts so I was waking him up with hand while my sisters wrist was in my other hand

@kingofhearts umm she has some problems. I don't know the answers. Only she can stop herself doing it.

When i was about 16 I cut myself not deep but there were cuts. There was no Internet or awareness about cutting. I felt sad and cut myself and felt better.

My dad saw and said "wtf have you done you stupid bitch. People will think you're crazy" and I thought "oh, I won't do that again then" and I didn't.

But in your sisters case there is awareness and it's known to be some kind of emotional disturbance.

How old is your sister?

I was talking with my sons Gf who is 17 earlier today and we were discussing how at about 15-16 women / girls get really emotional and upset. She had also cut herself at that age and was taken to a doctor. She said it was her mum being worried that stopped her.

The problem is, I think, that cutting is addictive (because of the chemicals in the brain it releases) so if she's been cutting a while it'll be harder for her to stop.

If she is of a very emotional age it may be worth explaining to her that it's reasonably common to feel low at that age and thar it will pass but scars from cutting will always be there if she continues to do it.

That's about all I got on this subject.

@KaiserSolze she was showing off to a guy and she is a no child she is 30 and I am the youngest one 24

@kingofhearts oh. Well. I don't know what to say other than she's a grown woman let her got on with it and bleed and tell her to never wake anyone up for her nonsense again.

Sleep deprivation is abuse in such circumstances. She is abusing you all. She should be ashamed of herself.

@KaiserSolze I feel like slapping her tbh but she was crying and my brother who is elder to me doesn't like her as well but he started to crying and eventually feel. Down on floor. And I felt like he has gone paralysed

@KaiserSolze she has been abusing this way for a decade now. Today she has crossed every limit. Waiting for this day to start it's 5 am I can't sleep

@kingofhearts she always blame us because no relatives like her, and she would start telling nonsense about us and we would never do that about her. She will do this kind of nonsense and want everyone to love her

@kingofhearts because all of you are at a loss with this woman.

Cutting herself to show off to a guy she likes him is pathological and then disturbing her family with it even more pathological.

Ideally you all need to get away from her so she can't draw you in and cause everyone upset. I know this is probably not possible. I really don't think you can do anything to help her, it's all of you who need help to get away from her.

@kingofhearts she's pathological. She has some kind of personality disorder.

@KaiserSolze I know that for too long now I have been telling them I won't b able to take it more for a while now. Tomorrow I will talk about to my cousin. He is the old man if our family

@KaiserSolze it's feel like but we both have tried our best but she say you all are wrong and she is right. I am done helping her

@kingofhearts problem is that I don't think anyone can help her. That means the moral dilemma between family loyalty because she's your sister and loyalty to yourself to have an abuse free life.

If she were married and away from you all it'd be easier because it'd limit how involved you had to be.

@KaiserSolze yeah that's true. That's what we all I want I guess that's why I never left and my brother never left as we are like just tolerate her until she gets married

@kingofhearts well maybe it's time to leave her to be a lonely lady. Holding off living your lives for a woman who cuts herself to show off and wakes you up at 2am is unfair to you and your brother.

Also if she's alone there's no one to wake up and see might be less likely to do stupid stuff.

She might do more stupid stuff to gain attention but that's where you'd need to be strong and leave her to it.

@KaiserSolze first she cut herself when I patched her up then was yelling take her to the hospital I said it's not bleeding nothing gonna happen to u and she was like its too painful then I went to the room and she was charging her mobile again to show that guy

@kingofhearts she's pathological. She will do anything to gain attention or what she wants. She's a person to avoid. Unluckily for you she's your sister. There must be someone who'll marry her?

@KaiserSolze no one yet we would be happy if she was married. She never trust us but believe any random guy who start talking sweetly then she would take her side over us even she knows him for a week

@kingofhearts that's called "triangulation" pathological people will use people against eachother for their own amusement.

@kingofhearts I just want to be happy. Ugh I thought that day will never come. First my parents. Now she. She supposed to be the Head of the family after my parents. I am 24, never had a gf, don't go out I don't have any life because of her

@kingofhearts start putting yourself first and ignore her or 10 years from now you will easily be in the same position.

If nothing changes everything will stay the same.

@KaiserSolze for 15 minutes I did not have any idea what to do....

@kingofhearts yes. It is shocking and awful.