If you were me...?

I am a anitsocial person who is over slightly over weight. Where I work the people criticize me and I have been bad for business I don’t know if I am going to get fired everyday I wake upo worry I am also trying to get into college. When I first started work I was a laughing stock to everyone even the customers. Now people hardly come here when it’s my shift my employees shun me as I shun them back for their rude remarks behind my back (including my boss)I am worried it will be like this forever. I can’t quite just yet I have bills. This guy I liked here I wanted to make him my friend. He is a ladies man and a great talker. He has been here the longest and makes me feel like crap the most. He use to like me but I am so quiet and fat he now shuns me away. And also has other following his footsteps in shunning me unless I talk about something interesting they shun me. I almost killed myself one night when a customer came in talking about how fat I was... I can’t even with this job idk what to do other than give up which is what everyone is waiting for.

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unknownpoetx · 36-40, M

what does "slightly" mean?
why people criticize you? why are you bad for business? where are you from? what is your job?

Tiffany654300 · 26-30, F

@unknownpoetx I work in restaurant. When I mean slightly I am over my BMI by a few points in other words it considers me obese. Why do people criticize me? i don’t know I guess because I’m a weak link.

unknownpoetx · 36-40, M

@Tiffany654300 so it's not slightly. you are fat. obese. very overweight. it's not slightly in any way whatsoever.
obviously no one likes fat people attending the public. it's only natural you are going to be fired and that you are bad for the business.I wonder how you were hired in the first place anyway.
then you have problems with the other guy you like and with other people. you have problems with yourself due to lack of confidence and self esteem.
all things related to you being fat.
you don't do anything to change and expect different results?
the real question here is, when where and what are you going to do to lose weight and if you are willing to do it. good luck.

SW-User

@unknownpoetx why do you think you speak for everyone? It's a bit presumptuous on your part to think "no one likes fat people attending the public" if this user is overweight, did you ever consider for a moment, that there might be something medical going on? Grow up.

celine211 · 22-25, F

@unknownpoetx Fired because of the weight?? how is that natural unless its something directly interfering with the job. She's not the problem here! Society is

Earthwrap · 41-45, M

@unknownpoetx Are you trying to help or just being an idiot asshole troll?

unknownpoetx · 36-40, M

@SW-User she's going to be fired bc of it. it's a fact. it's completely irrelevant if it's medical or not.
@celine211 yes. she attends the public. public doesn't like fat people. like she said, it's bad for the business. if she wasn't dealing with the public there wouldn't be any issue. blaming society? blame all you want. it's the way it is either you like it or not. so deal with it.
@Earthwrap you are reported.

Tiffany654300 · 26-30, F

Also I am very health person until I discovered I had acid reflex (gerd) which helped me lose 150 pounds I use to be 300 now I am 200 even@SW-User

unknownpoetx · 36-40, M

@Tiffany654300 that's good. it's a great improvement. if you lost 150 you can lose more. but I would check those math skills... 300-200 = 100 not 150... :\

Tiffany654300 · 26-30, F

Correct I am horrible at math hat is why I am going to school@unknownpoetx

unknownpoetx · 36-40, M

@Tiffany654300 not using metric units it's bad. going back to school? seems like you are in the way to achieve all your goals. losing weight, improving your education. there's nothing to worry about. you will probably get fired but you can always find another job. start looking for one now and don't quite your current. and congratz

Tiffany654300 · 26-30, F

You very real in your words I am thankful though I don’t think I will get fired just yet until they can find a replacement I live in a small town next to a school and work a night shift. Put I will be if it stays like this to this rate.@unknownpoetx